*Canceled* Youth Summer Hike | Sr. Maryam Awwal & Hafiz Zaid Khanani
2023-07-22 11:00 - 14:00 (America/Los_Angeles) | MCC East Bay, 5724 W Las Positas Blvd #300, Pleasanton, CA, 94588, United States
Boys and girls ages 13-18, join us for a Saturday hike at Little Yosemite to recharge your spirits and renew your appreciation for the beauty that surrounds us. Spend time exploring the beautiful nature, and end with lunch and a prayer demonstration with Sr. Maryam Awwal and Hafiz Zaid Khanani.

Saturday, July 22 | 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. | Little Yosemite | $12/person (lunch only) | Register at mcceastbay.org/youth-hike

We will meet at the Little Yosemite parking lot.The MCC has a standing policy that financial need should never hold a family in the East Bay from benefiting from any offering at the MCC facility. To request a financial waiver, please complete the application at mcceastbay.org/scholarshipMaryam Awwal is a second-year Master of Arts student at Zaytuna College studying Islamic law and legal theory. She has a master’s in Counseling Psychology from the Wright Institute and is pursuing an associate’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and Professional Clinical Counseling.

She also has a BA in Liberal Arts & Islamic Studies from Zaytuna College and a BA in Economics from UC Davis. After graduating, she hopes to further her education in various sacred Islamic sciences and support the development of sound Muslim communities in the West.Zaid Khanani is a Marriage and Family Therapy trainee with the City of Fremont, Youth, and Family Services. He graduated from Zaytuna College and completed his Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology at the Wright Institute. Hafiz Zaid continues his formal Islamic Studies with local teachers and scholars overseas. He is a former Islamic Studies teacher at Northstar Islamic School and teaches numerous online classes.

Questions? events@mcceastbay.org

"Islamicate Impressionism" | Artist Safia Latif
2023-07-22 12:00 - 13:00
Join us for an afternoon exploring breathtaking and inspiring Islamic art with artist Safia Latif, unraveling their meanings and how she is using art to recreate Islamic narrative.

12 p.m. to 1 p.m. | Saturday, July 22 | Conference Room | Join in person or watch live at mcceastbay.org/live | Free; no registration requiredSafia Latif is an oil painter based in California. Her work creatively reimagines Islamic narratives and concepts using visible brushwork and an emphasis on light and color. Latif has pioneered the practice of “Islamicate Impressionism,” a novel style that is recognizably painterly and conceptually draws on the social and cultural phenomena associated with the Muslim world from Morocco to Indonesia. Latif’s work emerges as a departure from traditional Islamic art known for hyperdetailed miniature paintings and calligraphic and arabesque designs. Instead, she focuses on visual sensations of Islamic themes, highlighting the inherently cosmopolitan nature of Islam and conveying a sense of wonder and beauty.

Latif earned an MA in Middle Eastern Studies and began a Ph.D. in religion, focusing on the notion of piety as a form of social capital for Muslim women in the medieval world. Though she enjoyed academia, she was always drawn to art and decided instead to use her knowledge of Islamic history to inform a meaningful body of work. Her paintings reflect a personal openness to faith, likely owing to her diasporic background as the daughter of an American Russian Jewish convert to Islam and a Pakistani Muslim immigrant.

Questions? events@mcceastbay.org

Livermore Land Property Tour
2023-07-23 09:30 - 12:00, 2023-07-30 09:30 - 12:00
MCC has arranged for a complimentary shuttle to take congregants on Sunday, July 23, July 30, and August 6.

The shuttle leaves the MCC parking lot at 9:30 a.m., arriving at the land at 10 a.m. for a two-hour property tour. The shuttle returns to MCC at noon. RSVP at HTTP://mcceastbay.org/tour

– Site address: 8100 Carneal Rd, Livermore, CA 94551

– Learn more about this project: https://mcceastbay.org/growth

Need help finding the property or the shuttle? Call Board member Zaheer Khan at (925) 699-7873

Questions? contact@mcceastbay.org

Afghan Family Night & Youth Program | Ustadh Feraidoon Mojadedi & Dr. Arshad Ershad
2023-07-23 18:00 - 20:00
For families that arrived from Afghanistan in the U.S. after August 2021, please join us for a Sunday family night program about building Afghan American identity and religious and cultural resiliency with Ustadh Feraidoon Mojadedi and Dr. Arshad Ershad.

Sunday, July 23 | 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. | Free to attend; registration required for dinner @ mcceastbay.org/family-night

Registration is required for dinner.

Free backpacks with all essential school supplies will be given to school-age kids that have registered and attended the talks.

Questions? refugee@mcceastbay.orgUstadh Feraidoon Mojadedi is one of Bay Area- California’s most well-known and respected community leaders, lecturers, and entrepreneurs. He was born in Herat, Afghanistan, and immigrated with his family to America during the Russian invasion of Afghanistan in 1985. After graduating from American High School and Chabot College, he attended San Francisco State University, where he majored in history.

He grew up in a household with a deep love and reverence for poetry. At age five, he began memorizing poems by Rumi and other great poets. His love of poetry continued to grow and eventually developed into a passion and calling that would allow him to teach regular classes on Rumi throughout California, the U.S., the U.K., Canada, Australia, Malaysia, Germany, and even as far as Konya, Turkey, where Mawlana Rumi is laid to rest. The nuances of the Farsi language, in which he is fluent, allow him the unique ability to bring Rumi’s poetry to life and to help listeners recognize Rumi’s essential message of peace, love, coexistence, and connection with the Divine. He is the author and performer of the “Layla & Majnun” a play produced by Performing Lines in Perth, Australia.

Ustadh Feraidoon spends his free time reading, studying, and lecturing on many topics, including Rumi and a comprehensive collection of Farsi poetry, spirituality, and self-development. He currently lives with his wife and two children in Dublin, California.

More Sidi Feridoon: https://mcceastbay.org/feraidoon

Weeklong Girls Camp | Sr. Maryam Awwal
2023-07-24 10:00 - 14:00
For girls ages 13-18, join us for an intensive week of spiritual renewal, where we go over Imam al-Haddad’s work, The Lives of Man, and connect ourselves to our Creator by learning the five stages of human life.

Monday – Friday, July 24 – July 28 | 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. | Register required at mcceastbay.org/youth-intensive

About the book

A dramatic exposition of the classical Muslim division of human life into five stages: before conception, life in the world, life in the grave, the resurrection, and heaven or hell. Extensive Qur’anic and Hadith references explain the condition of the soul at each stage.Based on the Qu’ran and Hadith, in this fascinating book, Imam al-Haddad explains that every human being passes through several “lives:” before conception, life in the world, life in the grave, the Resurrection, and finally, the Garden or the Fire. A complete Muslim must be aware of each of these if he is to be sufficiently prepared for eternal life.

What happens after Death? Who are “Munkar and Nakir?” What will Heaven and Hell be like? What signs should we expect before the day of Judgement? Who is the Dajjal? When will the Mahdi appear?

These and many other questions are answered, on the basis of the Qu’ran and Hadith, in this fascinating book. Imam al-Haddad explains that every human being passes through the “lives:” before conception, life in the world, life in the grave, the Resurrection, and finally, the Garden of the Fire. A complete Muslim must be aware of each of these if he is to be sufficiently prepared for eternal life.

About the author

Imam Abdallah Ibn-Alawi Al-Haddad lived in Tarim in the Hadramant Valley between Yemen and Oman, and is widely held to have been the ‘renewer’ of twelfth Islamic century. He was a noted authority on the Shafi’i school of jurisprudence, and a writer on devotional matters, both in poetry and prose. His works have been translated into many languages. Imam al-Haddad died in 1132 A.H. having spent his life bringing people to their Lord through his oral and written teaching, and his exemplary life. He was buried in a simple grave in the cemetary at Tarim.

About the Facilitators

Maryam Awwal is a second-year Master of Arts student at Zaytuna College studying Islamic law and legal theory. She has a master’s in Counseling Psychology from the Wright Institute and is pursuing an associate’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and Professional Clinical Counseling.

She also has a BA in Liberal Arts & Islamic Studies from Zaytuna College and a BA in Economics from UC Davis. After graduating, she hopes to further her education in various sacred Islamic sciences and support the development of sound Muslim communities in the West.Zaid Khanani is a Marriage and Family Therapy trainee with the City of Fremont, Youth, and Family Services. He graduated from Zaytuna College and completed his Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology at the Wright Institute. Hafiz Zaid continues his formal Islamic Studies with local teachers and scholars overseas. He is a former Islamic Studies teacher at Northstar Islamic School and teaches numerous online classes.

Questions? events@mcceastbay.org

Women Around the Messenger (saw) (Virtual)
2023-07-25 12:30 - 13:15, 2023-08-01 12:30 - 13:15
Ustadha Nihad Hemmoudeh facilitates a 45-minute live Zoom session for sisters (posted the following day publicly on MCC’s YouTube, Facebook, and Instagram) on the biographies of the women around the time of our beloved Messenger (saw) the critical role they played in the overall development of their society, right from the beginning. 12:30 p.m. to 1:15 p.m. PST | Tuesdays | 12 consecutive weeks from June 13 to Aug. 29 | No pre-registration needed | Join live each week at 12:30 p.m. on Zoom at https://mcceastbay.org/sahabiyat

Watch the prior sessions in this series: HTTP://mcceastbay.org/women-seriesMore Ustadha Nihad:

– Ustadha Nihad’s “Women Around the Messenger” series: HTTP://mcceastbay.org/women-series

– Ustadha Nihad’s “Forty Hadith Qudsi” series: https://mcceastbay.org/qudsi

– Ustadha’s Nihad’s “Pearls of Islam: The Wives of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH)” series: https://mcceastbay.org/pearls-series

– Ustadha Nihad’s Surah al-Kahf series: https://mcceastbay.org/kahf

– Ustadha Nihad’s Juz Amma series: https://mcceastbay.org/quran-tafseer

– Hafidha Nihad’s Sahaba (Companions) Series Sessions: https://mcceastbay.org/companions-series

– Ust. Nohad’s Al-Nawawi Hadith Series: https://mcceastbay.org/nawawi

– More Ustadha Nihad: https://mcceastbay.org/nihad

Questions? events@mcceastbay.org

Women’s Seerah Bookclub (virtual) | Ustadha Leila Fakira
2023-07-25 18:30 - 20:00, 2023-08-01 18:30 - 20:00
Join our weekly sisters’ virtual-only Seerah book club, where we have an active discussion, take away lessons for our daily lives, and inshaAllah fall in love with the Prophet ﷺ. We are currently reading from, “The Prophetic Narrative” by Samira al-Zayid.

RSVP for the live registration link below at https://mcceastbay.org/bookclub. RSVP is needed to join us virtually.

Event Details:

The discussion takes place every Tuesday from 6:30 p.m. to 8 p.m. with a break in Ramadan ’24.

Please register online to receive the link to the Whatsapp thread where all communication and updates will be made.

Book Purchase:

If you wish to follow along with the book, please purchase the book. The book can be purchased here:

– https://daybreak.rabata.org/products/soft-cover-a-compendium-of-the-sources-on-the-prophetic-narrative

Questions? bookclub@mcceastbay.org

About the Book

Internationally acclaimed as “the most authoritative resource” on the Sīra, this two-volume translation textbook is revolutionary in bringing Prophet Muhammad ﷺ’s life to life for everyone who ventures upon it.

This multiple award-winning, comprehensive compilation of narrations and details of the life of Prophet Muhammad (S) has never before been available in English until now! Internationally acclaimed as “the most authoritative resource” on the Sīra, this two-volume translation textbook is revolutionary in bringing his (S) life to life for everyone who ventures upon it. The original volumes have won the approval and praise of numerous scholars. It is finally available as a treasured text for personal or educational development.

Author: Samira al-ZayidTranslators: Susan Imady, Tamara Gray, & Randa MardiniBinding: SoftcoverPages: Vol 1, 570; Vol 2, 558Publisher: Daybreak Press

Questions? bookclub@mcceastbay.org

Mommy & Me Toddler Islamic Playgroup
2023-07-27 10:00 - 11:00, 2023-08-03 10:00 - 11:00
In this five-week summer session, our toddlers and pre-schoolers (ages 1-5) will develop a love for Islam, Allah (swt), and RasulAllah (saw) through book reading, sing-alongs, Parachute Time, activities, and more!

Thursdays, July 27, August 3, 10, 17 & 24 | 10 a.m. to 11 a.m. | Conference Room | $70 for five sessions or $20 per session | Register at HTTP://mcceastbay.org/happyhearts

These Mommy & Me sessions are designed for girls and boys ages one to four who are accompanied by a female guardian. Moms, grandmothers, and so on are welcome. This is also an excellent opportunity to connect with other moms and caretakers in the MCC community.

Our Mommy and Me sessions begin with dua and a salaam/greeting song and end with the Fi-Amanillah song and kid-favorite parachute time.

The sessions are on Thursdays from 10:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. starting May 11. Registration is required: HTTP://mcceastbay.org/happyhearts

We will meet on May 11, May 18, May 25, June 1, and June 8, inshaAllah.

Questions? Happy Hearts Playgroup Facilitator Sr. Khadija at mommyandme@mcceastbay.org

MCC has a standing policy that financial need should never hold a person back from attending any activity held in the community center. To request a financial waiver, please complete our financial waiver request: HTTP://mcceastbay.org/scholarship

Thursday Night Youth Halaqas | Sr. Maryam Awwal & Hafiz Zaid Khanani
2023-07-27 19:30 - 21:30
For boys and girls ages 13-18, join us over three Thursday nights to strengthen the bonds of brotherhood and sisterhood, discuss contemporary issues, and connect together to Allah. These sessions will be led by Sr. Maryam Awwal and Hafiz Zaid Khanani.

Thursdays, July 13, 20, & 27 | 7:30 p.m. to 9:30 p.m. | Conference Room | Free; register at mcceastbay.org/summer-youth-halaqa

Maryam Awwal is a second-year Master of Arts student at Zaytuna College studying Islamic law and legal theory. She has a master’s in Counseling Psychology from the Wright Institute and is pursuing an associate’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and Professional Clinical Counseling.

She also has a BA in Liberal Arts & Islamic Studies from Zaytuna College and a BA in Economics from UC Davis. After graduating, she hopes to further her education in various sacred Islamic sciences and support the development of sound Muslim communities in the West.Zaid Khanani is a Marriage and Family Therapy trainee with the City of Fremont, Youth, and Family Services. He graduated from Zaytuna College and completed his Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology at the Wright Institute. Hafiz Zaid continues his formal Islamic Studies with local teachers and scholars overseas. He is a former Islamic Studies teacher at Northstar Islamic School and teaches numerous online classes.

Questions? events@mcceastbay.org

Fast On the Day Of Ashura
2023-07-27 20:00 - 20:30
We are now in Muharram, which is the first month of the Islamic new year. The blessed day of ‘Ashura is this Friday, July 28.

Please calendar now to fast on the 10th of this month and either the day before or after (so the 9th or 11th of Muharram).

The 10th of Muharram is on Friday, July 28, so let’s please fast either Thursday and Friday or Friday and Saturday, inshaAllah. MCC will host a community Iftar on Friday, July 28.

– Shaykh Rami Nsour will also give a talk about this particular time on the day of Ashura: https://mcceastbay.org/event/ashura-program-iftar

– More talks & sermons on Muharram: https://mcceastbay.org/muharram

– For more information about the Day of Ashura, see https://seekersguidance.org/articles/the-day-of-ashura

What is the Day of Ashura?

Ashura marks the day that Moses and the Israelites were saved from Pharaoh by God creating a path in the Sea and is the Islamic equivalent to Yom Kippur. In Sunni Islam, Ashura follows the traditions of Judaism with a day of fasting – commemorating the parting of the Red Sea for Moses and his followers to escape Pharaoh. The Prophet Muhammad thought this tradition was worth following, so he fasted and encouraged his followers to do the same. On this day, Muslims fast and celebrate by reflecting, showing respect, and thanks. Is fasting required? Fasting is not compulsory during Ashura, but some Muslims choose to fast for one or two days. This is because the Prophet Muhammad was said to have fasted on the day of Ashura.

When is Ashura 2022?

Ashura falls on the tenth day of Muharram (the first month of the Islamic year) in the Muslim calendar – which this year is Monday, August 8.

In 2022, the day is commemorated, beginning on Sunday evening and ending on the evening of Monday, August 8. Islamic religious dates are tabular: they begin at sunset on the first evening and end at sunset on the second evening. The date changes each year as the calendar used by Muslims – the Hijri calendar – is ten to 12 days shorter than the Gregorian.

Questions? events@mcceastbay.org

– More talks & sermons on Muharram: https://mcceastbay.org/muharram

The month of Muharram is considered special by all Muslims and is one of the four sacred months of the year, which brings with it the day of Ashura, or the “Tenth day” of the month when fasting is recommended (with or without the addition of a day prior or after).

Following the Prophetic tradition, MCC invites all East Bay residents to fast on the day of Ashura, which starts on the evening of Sunday, August 7, and during the day of Monday, August 8.

The first is the Hijrah, the migration of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and his companions from Mecca to Medina in 622 AD. This birth of a pluralistic Muslim community marks the beginning of the Islamic calendar and served as the key turning point for the first Muslims and the future of Islam. The Hijrah also marks the beginning of a new chapter for humanity, where freedom of faith and justice for all became the cardinal principles of the newly founded society and a model for us to aspire to.

The other two historical events took place on the 10th day of Muharram, called Ashura, and after completing the migration to Medina, the Prophet witnessed the Jews of Medina fasting to celebrate the victory of Prophet Musa (PBUH) and his people over the Egyptian Pharaoh. Prophet Muhammad then asked his companions to join this fasting tradition to express their gratitude to Allah for saving Musa and his people.

On the same day, just six decades later, the Prophet’s grandson Husayn ibn Ali was martyred in the Battle of Karbala. This was one of the saddest and most heartbreaking events in the history of Islam, which we continue to mourn today. As we commemorate Ashura, for Prophet Musa and Imam Husayn, we are called to re-commit to our struggle against all forms of tyranny and oppression and to seek liberty and justice for all. Following the Prophet Muhammad tradition, MCC invites you all to fast on the day of Ashura.

Let us take this day to continue the practice of our beloved Prophet and pray for the unity of our ummah (community).

Weeklong Girls Camp | Sr. Maryam Awwal
2023-07-28 10:00 - 14:00
For girls ages 13-18, join us for an intensive week of spiritual renewal, where we go over Imam al-Haddad’s work, The Lives of Man, and connect ourselves to our Creator by learning the five stages of human life.

Monday – Friday, July 24 – July 28 | 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. | Register required at mcceastbay.org/youth-intensive

About the book

A dramatic exposition of the classical Muslim division of human life into five stages: before conception, life in the world, life in the grave, the resurrection, and heaven or hell. Extensive Qur’anic and Hadith references explain the condition of the soul at each stage.Based on the Qu’ran and Hadith, in this fascinating book, Imam al-Haddad explains that every human being passes through several “lives:” before conception, life in the world, life in the grave, the Resurrection, and finally, the Garden or the Fire. A complete Muslim must be aware of each of these if he is to be sufficiently prepared for eternal life.

What happens after Death? Who are “Munkar and Nakir?” What will Heaven and Hell be like? What signs should we expect before the day of Judgement? Who is the Dajjal? When will the Mahdi appear?

These and many other questions are answered, on the basis of the Qu’ran and Hadith, in this fascinating book. Imam al-Haddad explains that every human being passes through the “lives:” before conception, life in the world, life in the grave, the Resurrection, and finally, the Garden of the Fire. A complete Muslim must be aware of each of these if he is to be sufficiently prepared for eternal life.

About the author

Imam Abdallah Ibn-Alawi Al-Haddad lived in Tarim in the Hadramant Valley between Yemen and Oman and is widely held to have been the ‘renewer’ of the twelfth Islamic century. He was a noted authority on the Shafi’i school of jurisprudence and a writer on devotional matters, both in poetry and prose. His works have been translated into many languages. Imam al-Haddad died in 1132 A.H., having spent his life bringing people to their Lord through his oral and written teaching and his exemplary life. He was buried in a simple grave in the cemetery at Tarim.

About the Facilitators

Maryam Awwal is a second-year Master of Arts student at Zaytuna College studying Islamic law and legal theory. She has a master’s in Counseling Psychology from the Wright Institute and is pursuing an associate’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and Professional Clinical Counseling.

She also has a BA in Liberal Arts & Islamic Studies from Zaytuna College and a BA in Economics from UC Davis. After graduating, she hopes to further her education in various sacred Islamic sciences and support the development of sound Muslim communities in the West.Zaid Khanani is a Marriage and Family Therapy trainee with the City of Fremont, Youth and Family Services. He graduated from Zaytuna College and completed his Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology at the Wright Institute. Hafiz Zaid continues his formal Islamic Studies with local teachers and scholars overseas. He is a former Islamic Studies teacher at Northstar Islamic School and teaches numerous online classes.

Questions? events@mcceastbay.org

Three Jumu’ah Services @ MCC
2023-07-28 13:30 - 16:00
For MCC’s Jumu’ah services on Friday, July 28:

1:30 p.m. – 1:50 p.m.

– Shaykh Rami Nsour delivers this sermon.

2:30 p.m. – 2:50 p.m.

– Hafiz Zaid Khanani delivers this sermon.

3:40 p.m. – 4 p.m.

– Hafiz Abdullah Ayyaz delivers this sermon.

Please attend at 2:30 or 3:40 p.m. to avoid heavier first-service congestion whenever possible. Masks are optional in the facility.

Jumu’ah parking for three services is in the MCC and the neighboring HP lot. The aerial map is at https://mcceastbay.org/hpPlease note that the HP lot will not be available starting August 18. Please come to the second and third Jumu’ah to ease up parking or attend the parallel satellite prayer at 1:40 p.m. at Dublin Library starting August 18: https://mcceastbay.org/satellite-jumuah-library-update

– Virtually watch these three sermons from home: https://mcceastbay.org/live

– More Sidi Zaid: HTTP://mcceastbay.org/zaid

– More Shaykh Rami: https://mcceastbay.org/rami

– More Sidi Abdullah Ayyaz: https://mcceastbay.org/abdullah-ayyaz

For parents attending with young children indoors, MCC offers private mothers’ and fathers’ rooms with an audio and visual connection to Prayer Hall. Parents can watch the sermon and pray while working with other parents with young children. The mothers/fathers prayer room is just past the Banquet Hall doors into the school area.

Questions? events@mcceastbay.org

Youth Leaders Farewell BBQ | Sr. Maryam Awwal & Hafiz Zaid Khanani
2023-07-28 18:00 - 21:00
*Please note the new time due to teens fasting on the Day of Ashura this Friday*For boys & girls 13-18, join us for a BBQ afternoon where we get to know each other, share stories, and have fun!

Friday, July 28 | 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. | Ken Mercer Sports Park | Register at mcceastbay.org/youth-bbq

Maghrib is at 8:23 p.m. this Friday. The BBQ will be served at Iftar time.

In following the Prophetic tradition, we encourage our community to fast on Friday, July 28, as well as the day before or after (so either Thursday and Friday or Friday and Saturday), insha’Allah.Maryam Awwal is a second-year Master of Arts student at Zaytuna College studying Islamic law and legal theory. She has a master’s in Counseling Psychology from the Wright Institute and is pursuing an associate’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and Professional Clinical Counseling.

She also has a BA in Liberal Arts & Islamic Studies from Zaytuna College and a BA in Economics from UC Davis. After graduating, she hopes to further her education in various sacred Islamic sciences and support the development of sound Muslim communities in the West.Zaid Khanani is a Marriage and Family Therapy trainee with the City of Fremont, Youth and Family Services. He graduated from Zaytuna College and completed his Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology at the Wright Institute. Hafiz Zaid continues his formal Islamic Studies with local teachers and scholars overseas. He is a former Islamic Studies teacher at Northstar Islamic School and teaches numerous online classes.

Questions? events@mcceastbay.org

Virtual Friday Night Women's Halaqa | Ustadha Shamira Ahmed
2023-07-28 19:00 - 20:00
Friday Night Halaqas are online for summer! Join Ustadha Shamira Chothia Ahmed for weekly halaqa on Friday nights.7 p.m. to 8 p.m. | Starts June 2 | Every Friday during Summer | To join virtually, register at https://mcceastbay.org/zoom

Ustadha Shamira will resume The Beginning of Guidance series from last summer.Ustadha Shamira Chothia began her journey in seeking sacred knowledge at the women’s Dar-ul-Uloom Mu’eenal Islam seminary in South Africa and completed the five-year intensive ‘alima program at Ja’mia Al-Imam Muhammad Zakariyya, one of Britain’s first and most renowned Islamic universities for women. There she was granted ijāzah (authorization) in Sahīh al-Bukhārī, Sahīh al-Muslim, Sunan at-Tirmidhī, Sunan Abī Dāwūd, Sunan an-Nasā’ī, and Sunan Ibn Mājah. Thereafter, she continued her Arabic and Qur’anic studies in Damascus, Syria, where she obtained an ijāzah in Tajwīd of the Ḥafṣ recitation from the late eminent Syrian scholar Shaykh Ḥasan al-Kurdī. Ustadha Shamira is a co-founder of The Rahmah Foundation, a non-profit organization dedicated to disseminating traditional Islamic knowledge by qualified female teachers to Muslim women around the globe. She is a passionate advocate for natural birth, infusing her natural birth classes with Islamic spirituality since 2009, and has been a qualified lactation counselor since 2011. Her latest endeavor is her sisters-only YouTube channel catering to women’s educational and spiritual needs through short talks and reminders. Ustadha Shamira resides in sunny Southern California with her husband and four children.

Lessons from Ashura (Program & Iftar) | Shaykh Rami Nsour
2023-07-28 19:15 - 20:15
Join Shaykh Rami Nsour for spiritual insights about the significance of the Day of ‘Ashura from Hadith, the significance of events that occurred after the life of the Prophet (peace be upon him), and what it means to the community today.

7:15 p.m. to 8:15 p.m. | Friday, July 28 | Conference Room | Join in person or virtually at mcceastbay.org/live

The blessed day of ‘Ashura is this Friday, July 28. Maghrib on this day is at 8:23 p.m.

In following the Prophetic tradition, we encourage our community to fast on Friday, July 28, as well as the day before or after (so either Thursday and Friday or Friday and Saturday), insha’Allah. RSVP at https://mcceastbay.org/fast-ashura

Please note that once registration closes, you will have to get on the waitlist. Being on the waitlist does not mean that you are registered for Iftar. Waitlisted people will be allowed to register only/if there are any cancellations.

For more information about the Day of Ashura, see https://seekersguidance.org/articles/the-day-of-ashura

– More talks & sermons on Muharram: https://mcceastbay.org/muharram

– For more information about the Day of Ashura, see https://seekersguidance.org/articles/the-day-of-ashura

– More Shaykh Rami: https://mcceastbay.org/rami

What is the Day of Ashura?

Ashura marks the day that Moses and the Israelites were saved from Pharaoh by God creating a path in the Sea and is the Islamic equivalent to Yom Kippur.

In Sunni Islam, Ashura follows the traditions of Judaism with a day of fasting – commemorating the parting of the Red Sea for Moses and his followers to escape Pharaoh.

The Prophet Muhammad thought this tradition was worth following, so he fasted and encouraged his followers to do the same.

On this day, Muslims fast and celebrate by reflecting, showing respect, and thanks.

Is fasting required?

Fasting is not compulsory during Ashura, but some Muslims fast for one or two days. This is because the Prophet Muhammad was said to have fasted on the day of Ashura.

When is Ashura 23?

Ashura falls on the tenth day of Muharram (the first month of the Islamic year) in the Muslim calendar – this year is Friday, July 28.

In 2023, the day is commemorated, beginning on Sunday evening and ending on Friday, July 28.

Islamic religious dates are tabular: they begin at sunset on the first evening and end at sunset on the second evening. The date changes each year as the calendar used by Muslims – the Hijri calendar – is ten to 12 days shorter than the Gregorian.

Questions? events@mcceastbay.org

More talks & sermons on Muharram: https://mcceastbay.org/muharram

The month of Muharram is considered unique by all Muslims and is one of the four sacred months of the year, which brings with it the day of Ashura, or the “Tenth day” of the month when fasting is recommended (with or without the addition of a day prior or after).

Following the Prophetic tradition, MCC invites all East Bay residents to fast on the day of Ashura, which starts on the evening of Thursday, July 28, and during the day of Friday, July 29.

The first is the Hijrah, the migration of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and his companions from Mecca to Medina in 622 AD. This birth of a pluralistic Muslim community marks the beginning of the Islamic calendar and serves as the critical turning point for the first Muslims and the future of Islam. The Hijrah also marks the beginning of a new chapter for humanity, where freedom of faith and justice for all became the cardinal principles of the newly founded society and a model for us to aspire to.

The other two historical events took place on the 10th day of Muharram, called Ashura.

After completing the migration to Medina, the Prophet witnessed the Jews of Medina fasting to celebrate the victory of Prophet Musa (PBUH) and his people over the Egyptian Pharaoh. Prophet Muhammad then asked his companions to join this fasting tradition to express gratitude to Allah for saving Musa and his people.

On the same day, just six decades later, the Prophet’s grandson Husayn ibn Ali was martyred in the Battle of Karbala. This was one of the saddest and most heartbreaking events in the history of Islam, which we continue to mourn today.

As we commemorate Ashura for Prophet Musa and Imam Husayn, we are called to re-commit to our struggle against all forms of tyranny and oppression and to seek liberty and justice for all.

Following the Prophet Muhammad tradition, MCC invites you all to fast on the day of Ashura. Let us take this day to continue the practice of our beloved Prophet and pray for the unity of our Ummah (community).

*Canceled* Monthly Women's Dhikr Circle | Ustadha Hosai Mojaddidi
2023-07-29 10:00 - 12:00
Join Ustadha Hosai Mojaddidi for monthly in-person women-only dhikr circles filled with recitation, reflection, and Salawat.

This monthly Sisters Healing & Du’ah Circle is here to support sisters experiencing grief/loss, marital challenges, parenting challenges, health challenges, caring for elderly parents/loved ones, isolation, etc.

– More Ustadha Hosai: https://mcceastbay.org/hosai

– ‘Purification of the Heart Series: (Women): https://mcceastbay.org/muslimah-purification

– ‘Purification of the Heart Series: (Adults): https://mcceastbay.org/heart-purification

– ‘Purification of the Heart Series (Teens): https://mcceastbay.org/purification

– ‘Agenda to Change our Condition’ Series: https://mcceastbay.org/agenda

– ‘Modern Muslim Parenting’ Series: https://mcceastbay.org/islamic-parenting

Schedule

– Welcome

– Recitation of Ratib al-Shahr wird

– Recitation of Surah Yasin

– Dhikr

– Salawat

– Short reflection (khatira)

After this monthly gathering, MCC hosts a children’s story-time: https://mcceastbay.org/storytime

About Ustadha Hosai Mojaddidi:Hosai Mojaddidi is the co-Founder of mentalhealth4muslims.com where she advocates for and writes about various mental health-related topics tailored for Muslims. She has served the American-Muslim community for nearly 20 years as an activist, writer/editor, mediator, interfaith organizer, and public speaker, covering a variety of topics including women’s issues, marriage/family, education, and self-development, interfaith bridge-building, spirituality, etc.

In her spare time she enjoys reading, writing, blogging via social media (Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter), doing arts and crafts, visiting gourmet coffee shops, and exploring the countless beautiful parks, beaches, and nature preserves throughout Northern California where she lives with her husband, two sons, and fish named Max.

Questions? events@mcceastbay.org

Cultivating Mercy & Love in Marriage (Mawada & Rahmah) | Sidi Masoud Qazen
2023-07-29 12:00 - 16:00
Sidi Masoud Qazen will give practical and spiritual tips for a successful marriage and ways to keep Rahma wa Mawadda (mercy and love) in a marriage.

– More Islamic marriage talks: https://mcceastbay.org/marriage

– More Sidi Masoud: https://mcceastbay.org/masoud

Masoud Qazen is a community member, a scientist by profession, and MCC Sunday School Quranic instructor. He spends his days coaching executives to become better at problem-solving to bring new products to the market. He has studied Arabic and Quran with many teachers, including scholars from the Bay. In his free time, he tackles the Bay Area mountains with his bike and fellow Muslim biking group.

Questions? events@mcceastbay.org

Eid Celebration Picnic for Special Needs Families | MUHSEN & MCC
2023-07-29 13:30 - 17:00
For San Francisco Bay Area families raising children with special needs, join us for a special Eid celebration hosted by MUHSEN in collaboration with MCC East Bay.

This picnic is hosted at David Jones Park in Fremont to accommodate better South Bay & East Bay (Tri-Valley) special needs families.

Registration is for each individual in the family. A hamburger-and-hotdog lunch is provided.

Saturday, July 29 | 1:30 p.m. to 5 p.m. | $2/person | Register at mcceastbay.org/muhsen-eid

We will have the following activities:

Bounce House

Face Painting

Balloons

And more!

MCC Youth: To volunteer at this Saturday afternoon picnic, please complete this form mcceastbay.org/picnic-volunteer

Questions? help@mcceastbay.org

– More MUHSEN co-sponsored events at MCC: https://mcceastbay.org/muhsen

Learn more about how we are privileged to accommodate our special needs community: https://mcceastbay.org/accommodating-disabilities

*Postponded* Prophetic Positivity in Parenting | Parenting Coach Yusur Hassan
2023-07-30 13:30 - 15:00
**Sunday afternoon’s workshop Prophetic Positivity in Parenting with Yusur Hassan is postponed due to the speaker’s illness.**

For Sisters Only: Join Parenting Coach Yusor Hassan for this workshop on three keys to navigating parenting for Muslim moms via the blessed example of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him).

1:30 p.m. to 3 p.m. | Sunday, July 30 | MCC Conference Room | In-person only; no livestream/recording | No RSVP needed

Questions? events@mcceastbay.org

– More parenting talks: HTTP://mcceastbay.org/parenting

It isn’t too late to discover parenting mindsets and tools so you and your family can enjoy peaceful and loving interactions. You will learn to increase your child’s willingness to listen through loving connections and positive interactions, as modeled in the Prophetic Way.

About the PresenterYusur Hassan is a certified parent coach and educator. She is the mother of four daughters and a homeschooling parent.As a parent editor and coach, she has worked with countless moms to create and understand the connections with their child(ren). She has hosted parenting workshops worldwide, provided private coaching to moms, and facilitated mothers’ support group circles at her local mosque. She is passionate about helping parents cultivate deep connections, strong bonds, and new levels of cooperation with their children that help parents guide their children and uphold the amana (sacred trust) each parent has been gifted.

Sr. Yusor can be reached at amanaparentcoaching@gmail.com and on IG @amanaparenting and FB: @amanaparentcoaching

Three Jumu’ah Services @ MCC
2023-08-04 13:30 - 16:00
For MCC’s Jumu’ah services on Friday, Aug. 4:

1:30 p.m. – 1:50 p.m.

– Sidi Saaleh Baseer delivers this sermon.

2:30 p.m. – 2:50 p.m.

– Brother Mohammed Abdul Baseer delivers this sermon.

3:40 p.m. – 4 p.m.

– Sidi Ali Dia delivers this sermon.

Please attend at 2:30 or 3:40 p.m. to avoid heavier first-service congestion whenever possible. Masks are optional in the facility.

Jumu’ah parking for three services is in the MCC and the neighboring HP lot. The aerial map is at https://mcceastbay.org/hpPlease note that the HP lot will not be available starting August 18. Please come to the second and third Jumu’ah to ease up parking or attend the parallel satellite prayer at 1:40 p.m. at Dublin Library starting August 18: https://mcceastbay.org/satellite-jumuah-library-update

– Virtually watch these three sermons from home: https://mcceastbay.org/live

– More Sidi Saleh: https://mcceastbay.org/saaleh

– More Br. Abdul Baseer: https://mcceastbay.org/mohammed

For parents attending with young children indoors, MCC offers private mothers’ and fathers’ rooms with an audio and visual connection to Prayer Hall. Parents can watch the sermon and pray while working with other parents with young children. The mothers/fathers prayer room is just past the Banquet Hall doors into the school area.

Questions? events@mcceastbay.org

Baba's Village | Baba Ali
2023-08-04 18:00 - 22:00
Attention Muslim Singles! Are you ready to experience something truly mind-blowing? Get ready for an event that will take the excitement of the classic Mafia game and amplify it to a whole new level.

We present Baba’s Village Murder Mystery – Mafia on Steroids!

Friday, August 4, 2023 | 6 p.m. to 10 p.m. | MCC Conference Room | In person only; register at mcceastbay.org/babas-village

– More Baby Ali: HTTP://mcceastbay.org/baba-ali

Imagine all the Mafia game’s suspense, strategy, and intrigue, but with a thrilling twist. Our Murder Mystery game will immerse you in Baba’s Village, where werewolves roam and danger lurks at every corner. This is not your ordinary game night; it’s an adventure! As you navigate through the mysterious village, you’ll have the chance to meet and interact with other Muslim singles uniquely and excitingly.

This immersive experience will allow you to showcase your problem-solving skills, form alliances, and uncover the truth behind the werewolf attacks.

Baba’s Village Murder Mystery is not just a game; it’s a chance to connect with like-minded individuals who share your love for thrilling adventures. Don’t miss this incredible opportunity to make new friends, forge lasting connections, and maybe even find someone special. Secure your spot for a night of suspense, surprises, and unforgettable memories. Register today and get ready to experience the ultimate Muslim singles event – Baba’s Village Murder Mystery.

Questions? offline@halfourdeen.com or events@mcceastbay.org

Friday Night Women's Halaqa (Virtual)
2023-08-04 19:00 - 20:00

Bay Area Islamic School Open House
2023-08-04 19:00 - 21:00
Muslim parents are increasingly turning to full-time Islamic schools or homeschooling as a haven for their children. As waitlists grow at these schools, frustrated parents are unsure what to do next. Join us as we hear from representatives of various Islamic schools in the Bay Area about what’s caused a growth in demand, their offerings and the admission process, and current growth opportunities for schools and parents, as well as get your questions answered directly from homeschooling moms.

7 p.m. to 9 p.m. | Friday, August 4 | MCC Prayer Hall | Join in person or watch virtually at HTTP://mcceastbay.org/live

Participating schools:

– Northstar School in Hayward (deck & video)

– Peace Terrace Academy in Fremont (deck & video)

– Granada Islamic School in Santa Clara (deck & video)

– Averroes High School in Fremont (deck & video)

– Zaytech Academy in Mt. House (deck & video)

– ILM Tree Homeschooling Co-operative in Lafayette (deck & video)

– San Francisco Islamic School in San Francisco (deck & video)

– Al Judiy Academy in Walnut Creek (deck & video)

– Nuh’s Ark in San Ramon (deck & video)

– Hikmah School in Brentwood (deck & video)

Unconfirmed schools:

– Ilm Academy in Fremont (deck)

– Silicon Valley Academy in Sunnyvale (deck)

MCC also hosts an Islamic homeschooler information night: https://mcceastbay.org/event/homeschool-open-house

Questions? events@mcceastbay.org

Navigating Generational Trauma | Dr. Omar Reda
2023-08-05 10:00 - 12:00
https://youtu.be/0_y0-TxcrF4

Join us for a Saturday afternoon with Dr. Omar Reda, a Harvard-trained trauma expert, to gain valuable insights and guidance on generational trauma and learn practical ways to overcome and break the cycles of trauma in our families.

Saturday, August 5 | 10 a.m. to noon | MCC Prayer Hall | Join in person or watch live at mcceastbay.org/live

Sponsored by Averroes High School and MCC East Bay.

Dr. Omar Reda is a board-certified psychiatrist, Harvard-trained trauma expert, humanitarian, and author who’s devoted much of his career to helping people recover from psychological trauma. Trained as a medical doctor in his home country of Libya, Dr. Reda found himself about to be jailed for engaging in humanitarian activities, fleeing the country in 1999. After settling in the US, he trained at Harvard and the University of Tennessee. Considered a “global trauma expert,” Dr. Reda has consulted for the UN and WHO and has extensive experience working with survivors of all kinds of trauma (with a soft spot in his heart for children and refugees). He works on breaking family cycles of trauma through the Untangled model of care used in communities across the USA and abroad. His latest book, “The Wounded Healer” (W.W. Norton & Company, 2022), calls upon healers to break free from the cycles of secrecy, toxic stress, and silent suffering to continue to empower and inspire those in their care.
Dr. Reda leads the Daughter Father Bonding Project, a family healing project designed to bond daughters and their fathers. This relationship is scary; both daughters and fathers deserve to heal and strengthen their bond by opening channels of communication and building bridges of trust.

New Muslim Brunch
2023-08-05 10:00 - 13:30
For Converts and Friends/Family: Join us for brunch as we show some love by welcoming our new Muslim brothers and sisters into the deen and into our community.

Saturday, Aug. 5 | 10 a.m. to 1:30 p.m.| Banquet Hall | In-person only | RSVP at mcceastbay.org/convert-brunch

– How MCC supports new Muslims: https://mcceastbay.org/convert-care

– Recordings of educational talks for reverts playlist: https://mcceastbay.org/after-shahada

– Shahadah moments at the MCC: https://mcceastbay.org/shahada

Questions? mentorship@mcceastbay.org

Muslim Singles Meet and Greet
2023-08-05 12:30 - 17:00
Are you a single Muslim or Muslimah looking for the right partner to form a happy marriage? Then this event is for you.

Every four months, MCC East Bay teams with the much-lauded Half Our Deen platform (and Baba Ali) to run a thoughtful, fun, private quarterly matrimonial event that is a profound departure from the tired traditional match-making session and that uses personality questions & fun activities to help our singles sisters and brothers get closer to finding a spouse.

This is an appropriately done matrimonial event – from thoughtfully screening every application, an equal ratio of men to women, and a fair chance for all to engage in a fun and exciting way through activities that melt the awkwardness of a singles mixer. This event is co-hosted with MCC, and the event venue will be shared only with approved applicants.

12:30 p.m. to 5 p.m. | Saturday, August 5 | Exact address is TBA to registered attendees only (the venue is in Pleasanton) | $94/person (fewer than 70 spots available) | Registration now open at https://mcceastbay.org/singles

If you cannot make this event, sign up for our notification list for the next quarterly event: https://mcceastbay.org/wait

MCC has a standing policy that financial need should not hold a person back from benefiting from any event held in the MCC facility or cosponsored by MCC. To request a discounted or full financial waiver, please visit https://mcceastbay.org/scholarship

This event breaks from ineffective speed-dating matrimonial events and traditional match-making. This game-oriented event caters to the need for more creative and effective ways to meet and learn about others. Many premarital and personality questions are incorporated into the event activities to allow for a quick dip into meaningful relationship questions.

The Bay is filled with Muslim singles, and we will sell out.

Questions? offline@halfourdeen.com or events@mcceastbay.org

What to expect?

Fun

We don’t play musical chairs because relationships aren’t based on 3-minute conversations. So, instead, we have exclusive fun games and activities designed specifically for marriage-minded Muslims to help you naturally learn about each other. (Here is a sneak peek into an actual live event)

Filtered

We are the only Muslim organization that filters our applicants and hand-picks every attendee. This allows us to select members most likely to be compatible and helps ensure we have a balanced number of men and women at every event.

Proven

61% of the attendees at our last event found a match. No other single event even comes close to the success of HD Live, so it’s no surprise that about 25% of attendees travel (including flights from outside the state and country) to attend this exclusive event.

Private

Our close-door events are at undisclosed locations because we take privacy very seriously. We believe that the only people that should know you’re attending the event are the people attending the event. In addition, our HD Live app allows you to show interest without the fear of rejection since matches are privately sent at midnight and only if the interest is mutual.

FAQs from MCC

Who can register?

This event is designed for Muslim singles from Northern California to meet privately and casually. Space is limited. Muslims from all states can apply, but priority will be given to singles residing in Northern California, particularly the San Francisco Bay Area. If our single sisters and brothers give positive feedback, MCC intends to cohost matrimonial events bi-annually or quarterly.

Who is the moderator?

Baba Ali, the co-founder of Half Our Deen, is an Iranian-born American comedian, game developer, businessman, and actor. He is the co-founder of the revolutionary matchmaking site Half Our Deen, an alternative to the Muslim dating apps we see today. He is also the founder of Ummah Films, a Muslim film company that attempts to provide Halal entertainment to Muslims and non-Muslims. Baba Ali rose to prominence within the online Muslim community with Ummah Films, which discusses various Islamic topics using humor.

Baba Ali has traveled the world doing stand-up to a wide range of Muslim and non-Muslim audiences. He has performed all over the United States, United Kingdom, and Canada, performing for audiences as large as 37,000 and all ages. He has been reviewed in The New York Times, USA Today, and Los Angeles Times and featured in seven episodes of DirecTV’s The Fizz News. Ali Ardekani is a video blogger to his viewers as Baba Ali.

https://youtube.com/watch?v=bHsyJCpSQJ0%3Fenablejsapi%3D1%26wmode%3Dopaque

Why is MCC collaborating with Half Our Deen?

Half Our Deen is an expert in the Muslim matching department and has a system that works. Their website and offline match-making events use personality matching to help connect like-minded Muslims and create lasting matches. For the last 11 years, the site has explicitly catered to marriage-minded Muslims and has over 2500+ success stories. Our event is modeled on their successful system.

MCC East Bay is pleased to offer our single community in the Bay Area the ability to use Half Our Deen’s resources to search for a spouse. HOD is unique in its ability to offer personality testing, high privacy standards, and offline events, which we believe will enhance the process for our single Muslims.

Everyone deserves to find true love and happiness in marriage. MCC is privileged to be a part of your life story by helping to facilitate this chance to meet the right person!

How does it work?

Fill out the brief application telling us about yourself and who you are looking for. You will receive an email with the following steps within a few days. You must add offline@halfourdeen.com to your contacts to prevent bouncebacks and spam/promotional archiving.

If your application is accepted, you will need to register for the event and make your payment to secure your seat.

The event will take place at a private location near Pleasanton, California. Exact location details will be provided only to accepted attendees before the event.

Questions? offline@halfourdeen.com

I cannot afford the registration fee.

MCC has a standing policy that financial need should not hold a person back from benefiting from any event held in the MCC facility or cosponsored by MCC. To request a discounted or full financial waiver, please visit https://mcceastbay.org/scholarship

Is there an age limit?

There is no age limit. This event is for adults 18+. Your selection for the event depends on attendees in the same range apply for this event.

To increase the chances of successful matches, we use a selection process to ensure quality and compatible candidates are in attendance. The goal is compatibility. For example, if most applicants indicate that the maximum age they are looking for in a spouse is 40, and you are older, your application would not be accepted. However, please don’t let this deter you from applying for our future events, as acceptance criteria change based on who is used for each event.

Is lunch offered?

We will have snacks, coffee, and tea. We will not have time for a full-fledged meal. Please ensure you have a hearty meal before the event begins at noon.

Will I still receive my confirmation if I am on the waiting list?

If it is determined that no compatible matches for you will be in attendance at the event, you will be placed on a waiting list. As we receive more applications, the criteria might change, and there will be a chance that you are still invited to the event. We do our best to invite as many matches as possible to increase everyone’s chances of meeting the right person. If you still haven’t heard from us in the weeks leading into the event, no candidates matched your criteria at this particular event. Please be patient and try again at another MCC matrimonial event (sign up for our newsletter at https://mcceastbay.org/newsletter).

Do I need a HalfOurDeen membership to attend the event?

You do not need a membership with HalfOurDeen to apply for this event; however, accepted applicants must complete their profile on HOD to attend. You will need a profile on HalfOurDeen to participate since a unique online/offline interaction characterizes this singles event. If you’re not already a member of HalfOurDeen, no problem. HalfOurDeen is providing a 90-day free trial membership for all MCC event attendees. Please note that your trial membership ends after 90 days so that you won’t be charged until the 31st. You can cancel right after the event if you choose. One particular advantage is that after meeting individuals at the event, you can learn more about them through their online profiles before connecting. A HOD-free membership will allow you to view anyone’s profile, which is also registered with the site. This way, there is no need to exchange personal information at the event, and all follow-up communication can be done safely through the HOD website after the event.

How do you screen applicants?

During the application process, applicants will answer a questionnaire that tells us a little about them and what they are looking for (or not looking for). Answers are then compared to the answers of all other applicants to determine who can attend to increase the chances for successful matches based on compatibility and personality matching.

Why was my application not accepted?

To increase the chances of successful matches, we use a selection process to ensure quality and compatible candidates are in attendance. The goal is compatibility. For example, if most applicants indicate that the maximum age they are looking for in a spouse is 40, and you are older, your application would not be accepted. However, please don’t let this deter you from applying for our future events, as acceptance criteria change based on who applies for each event.

Can I bring a family member or a friend to the event?

No. This event is specifically tailored to the applicants who apply and are accepted based on the information provided during the application process. Everything from the games played to the seating chart is specific to those who have secured a spot. That is why only those who have applied and been accepted can attend. Moreover, this is a private event, and to protect the privacy of others, only those who have been accepted will be given specific event details that must not be shared with anyone. Please encourage your friends who want to attend to apply! To keep this event as private as possible, the candidates are the only people allowed to attend it. Our committee members will do their best to keep all interactions focused and constantly monitored throughout the event.

What should I do if I haven’t received a confirmation email?

If you have not received a payment submission email after completing your application, we are receiving a high volume of applications and are still processing them. If you still haven’t heard from us by Feb 28th, no candidates were matching your criteria at this particular event. If you have any questions about the selection process, please watch this https://youtu.be/NqHiZXhWtcw

How is this event different from other Muslim matrimonial events that have taken place in NorCal?

We are making every effort to ensure that our event is done professionally organized manner that aligns with Islamic principles. Unlike other events, we will thoroughly vet all applicants via a detailed application. This process will ensure that the attendees are serious about marriage and that there are enough attendees of the opposite gender potentially compatible with *you* and your preferences. We will try our best to have as close to a 50:50 ratio of females to males as possible.

We will have a wide variety of structured activities that will help you get to know the potential in a low-key, pressure-free, and fun way. Our activities will be structured so people of all personality types can easily participate. So whether introverted, extroverted, or somewhere in the middle, you can participate in all the activities quickly—and, more importantly, get to know the potential in the process. You can also have the peace of mind of knowing that no one will have the spotlight on them at any time.

In order to keep in line with Islamic principles, our event will be constantly monitored by chaperones who will ensure that all interactions are kept professional and focused. They will also be there to help facilitate conversation and answer questions as necessary.

Can I be sure that the information on my application will be kept private?

Absolutely. This is our Amanah (trust), and we will not release your information to anyone without your permission. Your application will only be reviewed by the HOD Offline staff.

I am worried that others might discover I will be at this event. How will the event be kept private?

The only people who know that you will be at the event…are those at the event (and, of course, the people you tell). The MCC Matrimony Committee or HOD Offline will not inform anyone of your attendance. We are also keeping the event location private. Once you have fully registered and paid, the venue address will only be sent to you. So please do not share the event location with anyone!

Is there a dress code?

Our only dress code is that your clothing must be by Islamic principles (clothes cannot be revealing, tight, or see-through). Other than that, feel free to express your personality! Remember that you want to protect yourself best while remaining modest and genuine.

I do not wear a headscarf in public. Do I have to wear one to the event?

Although we highly encourage everyone to dress as closely by Islamic principles as possible, we will not ask that you wear a headscarf, as the event is not in a masjid prayer space. That said, anyone dressed inappropriately will not be allowed to participate in the event.

What precautions are you taking during the COVID-19 pandemic?

Given the social nature of the event, where attendees will meet new people for the first time and eat, we will require masks for the duration of the event.

FAQs from HOD

How is the Offline process different?

We steer clear of the speed-dating approach. The 3 minutes you give to talk to each person is great if you are looking for a 3-hour relationship. But not so much for a life-long commitment. Right from receiving your application, we screen to ensure only the most compatible attend by screening all our applicants. Our events have an even ratio of men to women, giving everyone a fair chance. By engaging people in fun and exciting activities, we break the ice and eliminate awkwardness. Since all our attendees are also on HOD Online, the follow-up after the event is relatively simple.

Why do I need a Half Deen membership to attend?

One of the unique features of Half Deen Offline is that everyone at the event can be found on Half Deen Online. You can view their profile online if you find someone interesting and would instead learn more about them before showing interest. No personal information exists because follow-up is done safely through our website after the event. You’ll have access to more than 3,000 active profiles. This way, even if you don’t find your ideal match at the offline event, you still have a great chance of finding them online. Our Offline events are for Members Only! You can become one by going to www.HalfDeen.com

What happens if the event is sold out?

We wish we could accommodate everyone! Due to this event’s increasing popularity, the seats fill fast. We keep the ratio of women to men at 1:1. Due to this, we sometimes have to temporarily halt the registration for the gender ahead until we can level the playing field. We ensure that everyone has an opportunity for a match. Keep checking the site to see when and where our next event will be.

What criteria do you screen applicants by?

We believe in quality matches. We don’t set the criteria; our applicants do. We review every application carefully and study your criteria for a spouse. We only invite those who meet your criteria, so you have a great shot right from the start. We are the only Muslim organization that filters our applicants to ensure compatibility, increasing your chances of finding “The One.” InshAllah!

Something came up. I cannot make it.

You can claim that for cancellation and refunds up to two weeks before the event with no conditions. For cancellations and refunds claimed up to one week’s notice, you will be given a refund on the condition of finding an equal replacement for you to attend the event.

Concerning event planning, no refunds will be given after the one-week conditional cancellation cut-off. Please consider that for every person invited, several interested members turned away to keep good ratios and compatibility. If you missed the event, we cannot refund/transfer or give you credit for the next one. We could not refund you if you attended the event because you did not find your match.

Why is your event venue private?

We care about your privacy. Our event location is kept confidential and is only revealed to those who are paid and confirmed. Nobody knows you are at the event except those at the event. We do not accept any walk-ups to the event.

Event Safety:

We’re encouraging our attendees and staff to adopt social distancing and sanitization measures to help keep everyone attending as safe as possible. As events are being scheduled again, their status may change due to the development of safety policies, but we’ll keep you posted if that’s the case.

Mask Recommended: We recommend attendees wear a mask during the event and in public areas (exceptions made while seated during snacks)

Clean Venue: Steps to sanitize surfaces throughout have been taken before the event.

Social Distancing: The recommended six feet of distance is suggested throughout the event for a safe distance event.

Temperature Checks: Attendees will be asked to submit contactless temperature checks before entering the venue hall.

Hand Sanitizer Stations: Attendees can access various hand sanitizing stations that will be located throughout the venue.
